insecurity versus security

if you are secure of yourself there's nothing to worry. people whose insecure of themselves are the one who criticize often. they cannot accept the fact that there's people out there who can be independent and successful. they cannot accept that somebody out there can overshadow them. and they cannot accept that someone can have the very thing that they're longing to have. its all self-denial. they just pretend to be super powerful, strong and whatsoever but if you look deeply to them they are empty, insecure and pathetic. they're just trying to disguise themselves. but if you are sure of yourself, and you really know who you are..you dont need to shout it to the world. people will automatically see that in you. even if you appear humble, low-profile and tend to be no one it will comes naturally. just like the saying, "you dont need to shout that you are a woman. if you do then you're not!" i believe that there's something in those people whose secure of themselves. they just act naturally, converse effortless and prove things unconciously. so for those people whose insecure...please, just mind your own business! you have to do some more, prove some more for you to gain my praise or anything. honestly, it wouldnt hurt me if you say those stupid things. i am secure of myself. i wont step down to your level nor give in to your demands. i know what i am and who i am. i dont base my totality as a person to everything that you people say. you can try to bring me down but you will never succeed. you cannot take away my faith in myself and the way i love myself. thats what i have that you dont have! thats the edge that i have...do you think you can have it too? then prove it! -belle 6/4/07 11:04pm